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Saturday, July 09, 2005

Cheating

What I mean by cheating is finding some1 else while ur in a relationship. I do not condone having multiple boy/girlfriends at the same time.

Cheating on ur boy/girlfriend is a classic issue. Who is at fault? the cheater? the cheatee? or the cheated? After discussing and analyzing, I seem to have found the answer :D The argument can only be implemented if u believe there is another person (only one) that completes you.
  • base argument #1: is it wrong to search for "The One"? Is it wrong to try to get "The One" 1nce s/he is found? If the answer is "NO" (which I think every1 still agrees here), then we move to the next argument.
  • base argument #2: if your "The One" is already "with someone", is it wrong to try and get him/her? This is where the basic disagreements appear which is why this logic only applies to those that believe there can only be only one "The One".
Argument:
  1. If you only have one "The One" then s/he would eventually be with you.
  2. If you only have one "The One" then s/he would never be happy with some1 else.
  3. If you only have one "The One" then his/her present partner would never be happy with him/her.
So based on the argument, you should try and get your "The One" no matter if s/he is already with some1 else. But now, who is at fault if your "The One" decides to be with u? Let's analyze by referring to the arguments:
  1. You(Cheatee) are wrong: you can't be at fault.. s/he was meant for you. They would not have been happy together anyways :)
  2. S/he("The One/Cheater") is wrong: "The One" can't be at fault.. S/he would not have been happy with his/her present partner anyways.
  3. The cheated can't be at fault either. But should s/he be angry? Of course not! A bit bummed at first, is natural thou. S/he shouldnt be angry coz if his/her partner was "The One", then s/he wouldnt have left for someone else.
So who is at fault? NO ONE! Who suffers the most? NO ONE! Every1 is happy, and all is for the better. There is one missing argument in this theory..How do we know who "The One" is? We dont. Thats the fun part:) This part is another whole different theory that I must explore further to find the complete answers to. It will be posted when the answers are found and I have the time to post it :)

Disclaimer: This writing was not meant as an excuse to search for other people while in a relationship. Again, I do not approve of multiple relationships! This writing was just pieces of thoughts put together in the course of time.

end of post, 8 comments

8 Comments:

At 5:32 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

master love api.. tolong ajari murid mu ini...

 
At 12:11 PM, Blogger Alveta said...

'lo' sekali ya, topiknya :D

 
At 9:52 AM, Blogger Api said...

apa apaan ni maksudnya... :p

 
At 4:38 PM, Blogger ojochan said...

hahahaha i like this entry. although I /can't/ say that I disapprove having multiple r'ships. If both sides actually have no problem with eachother having multiple r'ships, then why not? You need to try before you know that s/he is The One anyway, and sometimes some comparisons are actually needed (the reason why I can't really say that I disapporve having multiple r'ships).

Which is why... let's vote for open-relationships! *wide grin*

 
At 6:50 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

sebenernya pengen komentar dan diskusi.. cuma saya menghindari menyerang api disektor ini.. soalnya master sekali api :D

-hkr-

 
At 9:31 AM, Blogger Api said...

waduuh...

Master of Love HKR ST, SC(Sarjana Cinta) bermaksud menyindir saya nih.. saya di sini pengalaman masih dengan wanita lokal.. HKR sudah bertaraf internasional...

 
At 7:00 PM, Blogger Api said...

wooh... ojochan itu ndari ya...? hehe sebenernya sih i agree with u.. y limit relationships? :D but i have a girlfriend which subjects me to write that disclaimer :D

~jk

 
At 2:55 PM, Blogger ojochan said...

*lol* women and their power. yup, it's ndari in da house, got to your crib through andin's. gue link ya, pi. :)

 

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