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In this era of emancipation, independent women have been trouble for us guys.. Eits! dont start getting defensive on this one :) what i mean by "trouble" is this..A guy is supposed to act gentlemanly, have good ettiquette, and so on and so on.. but women nowadays don't respond to those acts.. they want to be independent.. they dont want us to open the doors, hold their books, drive their cars, etc.. so they dont let us act gentlemanly, but we are dubbed un-gentleman when we dont do those things.. So what what are we, guys trying to act like a gentleman, to do?

So far, this is the solution i can come up with; Act gentlemanly without asking questions on little things. With other gentlemanly actions, ask first and back-off if she disapproves. Xamples:

1. Going through a door->Hold out doors (no need for permission)
2. About to sit at a table->Pull out her chair (no need for permission)
   
3. She has books in her hand-> Ask permission to hold her books, back-off if she says she can handle it
4. She brings a car-> ask whether she'd like u2 drive d car, back-off if she says she wants 2drive it
5. Going home and its raining outside-> Tell her 2wait while u get the car from the parking lot, don't argue if she'd rather run in the rain 2gether

And many more examples.. Hmm.. are my methods of approach to this whole gentleman, emancipation thing correct? Dunno :p at least i havent had any complaints so far... :p

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